
Guided meditation · 6 min
Are you In Your Own Way?
Stop standing in your own way and start seeing the day's setbacks as life working for you.
With
Peter M. LucasRated4.66.1K plays
- Level
- Beginner friendly
- Style
- Guided meditation
- Sound
- Voice only
- Best time
- Evening or night
About this session
- Builds self-awareness
- Reframes setbacks
- Settles the mind
- Eases self-criticism
Peter M. Lucas, a former Marine, opens this six-minute meditation by inviting you to pause and feel your breath move through your nostrils and diaphragm. He then tells a parable: a student tries to outwit his teacher with a question about getting out of his own way, and the answer flips how you see good and bad fortune.
It suits anyone who tends to get in their own way, especially after a day that felt like one obstacle after another. Play it at night, when you can slow down, look back over what happened, and put down the urge to fix yourself before tomorrow.
After the session
01
A wider view of setbacks
See hard moments as happening for you.
02
Clearer self-awareness
Notice where you block your own progress.
03
Steadier response
Focus on how you respond, not control.
04
Quiet self-acceptance
Feel that you are enough as you are.
Who it’s for
Yes, if…
- Anyone who suspects their own habits are holding them back
- People winding down after a frustrating day
- Those who want a short evening reset with real food for thought
- Listeners who enjoy a simple parable over lengthy instruction
Not now, if…
- Those looking for an energising practice
- People who prefer silent meditation (this is guided)
- Anyone wanting a long, deep relaxation or sleep track

Questions people ask
Still unsure? Ask your assistant anything about this session.
What is the opening breath for?
Lucas invites you to give yourself one breath of presence before anything else. You feel what expands and contracts, the sensation in your nostrils and what happens in your diaphragm. He also offers it as a tool for later: whenever you feel overwhelmed, let that breath return you to the moment.
What does the parable of the seeker and the sage teach?
The seeker tries to dodge the sage's usual surprise question by asking his own first: if all obstacles are of my own doing, how do I get out of my own way? The reply is to treat every misfortune as a blessing, and every blessing as a curse. It is a way of loosening your fixed judgments about what is good or bad for you.
Why treat a blessing as a curse too?
The track asks how often life brought you a blessing and you saw it as a curse, and the reverse. The point is that your perception shapes what you do next. Questioning both directions keeps you from assuming you already know what is helping or hurting you.
What does 'just don't become one of them' mean?
Lucas says there will always be things in the way of your success. You can't remove them all, so the aim is to avoid adding yourself to the list. He pairs it with the idea that you can't control the outside world, but you can control how you respond.
Why is this one suited to night?
It invites you to look back at what happened and reread it, which fits the end of a day. The close is also gentle: you don't need to be improved, all you need is already within you. Hearing that before bed lets you set down the day's self-judgment.
